Yesterday I blogged about respect for authority. It was interesting because I mentioned the post to a couple of co-workers and it stemmed some conversations that were really good...but really sad. Simply reinforcing the truth of the lack of respect that is so prevalent in our society right now.
Today I want to talk about life though. Respect for authority is one thing, but surely we don't have a lack of respect for life. Right??
Your first obvious thought is the argument of abortion. What I find sad is that while many people are finally getting on board that these babies are alive they are still saying, "but it doesn't change my decision about abortion." OK, so, you agree that this is life, but you don't agree that this life should have the option of living if the mother chooses not to let it?? ...I know this is a hard conversation for many that I know and I respect that. However, we NEED to consider what message we send about respecting life when we either encourage abortion or when we don't say anything about it!
The next two may not be what you expected and may not resonate with you very much. You may be annoyed that I'm wasting my time with this...just bare with me though.
First, this zombie movement. Let's be honest, it can seem funny, and it intrigues people...but what in the world are we teaching a young generation?? What is said is, "They used to be human, but now they aren't so I can use a shotgun to shoot them or a chain saw to hack them apart and it's OK...because they are no longer human." Sorry people, but as an amateur historian, that screams at me of the plight of Jews in Germany during the Third Reich. Why? Because the dehumanization of anyone is the first step to genocide. If you look at Rwanda and other recent genocide movements; they all start with a dehumanization of a group of people. Why? Because if you tell yourself they are not human, then you can do anything to them and feel no remorse. OK. First, I'm not accusing the zombie movement of turning us into little Nazis. Not at all. What I am saying, is, are you sure these are the thoughts and ideas that you want your children learning subliminally? Me? Considering everything I'm going to have to deal with in the teen years and beyond with my oldest, I'd rather she didn't have any concept of dehumanizing other than the atrocities I've mentioned. I want her to learn about dehumanization from a negative view and from history, not from the entertainment industry and what gives her a thrill!
Along these same lines are first-person shooter games. For those who don't know, this is you playing a game where you just see the gun or your arms and the gun as you "walk" around the game doing things. It isn't always killing people (Sometimes aliens instead and sometimes you problem solve), but that's usually the main idea. Then you ask, "Nate! Is it really wrong. I'm just simulating a battlefield and I'd be killing that enemy anyway." True. Let me ask you this then. Would you send your child to war? Would you even let them watch war while it happened?? Would you want them to watch you killing people on a battlefield? (There is a reason men and women are trained for this and not just every John Doe can do it! There is also a reason why men and women who have seen atrocities have need of psychological help after they come home. I'm not saying first-person shooters portray all of this - in fact I know men in the military who love these games. I'm just saying think about your children and decide if they should be doing what these men and women are doing.)
Why do I worry about these last two things? Remember, I don't hate video games. I still play them at times myself. However, there is a general desensitization to the value of life that is happening. Grant it, I played guns as a kid and we "shot" each other and no one got hurt. I am happy to admit that these kinds of things don't have to create a lack of respect for life. However, as the "age at which men stop playing video games" seems to be increasing exponentially, we start to see that desensitization stay around instead of falling off. Instead of young adults setting a false world of violence behind and begin to see the people around them and the needs around them, we have a continued trend of violence and disrespect for life and others. We see a continued trend of "violence is the answer to our problems." We also have a higher level of realism thanks to amazing graphics and visual affects so the visual line between fantasy and reality has really been destroyed.
Reality and fiction are a much finer line for the young. I have an 8 year old who we still have to remind her when things we see are fake and not real life. Why? Because she assumes that if it looks real, then it should be real. ....is this true for everyone's child? I'm sure not. However, if you think your kids understand, I would challenge you to make sure. To talk to them and confirm that they know what things are real and what things are fake.
I'm not saying to ban these games or that you, as parents, ought to stop playing them (or stop allowing your kids play them). I am saying that if you have never talked to your kids about it or have never even thought about it, then you owe it to your kids AND to our future society to do it. To make sure they understand how to respect life.
OK. I know that was very much my own feelings on these things. You may agree with the need for respect of life, but not agree with my application of it. If so, post me an example you see that is an area where we need to work to increase the younger generation's (and our own) respect for life.
Later today (or tomorrow) I'm going to blog about respect (in general) and responsibility. So stay tuned one more time.
To God be the glory!!
Today I want to talk about life though. Respect for authority is one thing, but surely we don't have a lack of respect for life. Right??
Your first obvious thought is the argument of abortion. What I find sad is that while many people are finally getting on board that these babies are alive they are still saying, "but it doesn't change my decision about abortion." OK, so, you agree that this is life, but you don't agree that this life should have the option of living if the mother chooses not to let it?? ...I know this is a hard conversation for many that I know and I respect that. However, we NEED to consider what message we send about respecting life when we either encourage abortion or when we don't say anything about it!
The next two may not be what you expected and may not resonate with you very much. You may be annoyed that I'm wasting my time with this...just bare with me though.
First, this zombie movement. Let's be honest, it can seem funny, and it intrigues people...but what in the world are we teaching a young generation?? What is said is, "They used to be human, but now they aren't so I can use a shotgun to shoot them or a chain saw to hack them apart and it's OK...because they are no longer human." Sorry people, but as an amateur historian, that screams at me of the plight of Jews in Germany during the Third Reich. Why? Because the dehumanization of anyone is the first step to genocide. If you look at Rwanda and other recent genocide movements; they all start with a dehumanization of a group of people. Why? Because if you tell yourself they are not human, then you can do anything to them and feel no remorse. OK. First, I'm not accusing the zombie movement of turning us into little Nazis. Not at all. What I am saying, is, are you sure these are the thoughts and ideas that you want your children learning subliminally? Me? Considering everything I'm going to have to deal with in the teen years and beyond with my oldest, I'd rather she didn't have any concept of dehumanizing other than the atrocities I've mentioned. I want her to learn about dehumanization from a negative view and from history, not from the entertainment industry and what gives her a thrill!
Along these same lines are first-person shooter games. For those who don't know, this is you playing a game where you just see the gun or your arms and the gun as you "walk" around the game doing things. It isn't always killing people (Sometimes aliens instead and sometimes you problem solve), but that's usually the main idea. Then you ask, "Nate! Is it really wrong. I'm just simulating a battlefield and I'd be killing that enemy anyway." True. Let me ask you this then. Would you send your child to war? Would you even let them watch war while it happened?? Would you want them to watch you killing people on a battlefield? (There is a reason men and women are trained for this and not just every John Doe can do it! There is also a reason why men and women who have seen atrocities have need of psychological help after they come home. I'm not saying first-person shooters portray all of this - in fact I know men in the military who love these games. I'm just saying think about your children and decide if they should be doing what these men and women are doing.)
Why do I worry about these last two things? Remember, I don't hate video games. I still play them at times myself. However, there is a general desensitization to the value of life that is happening. Grant it, I played guns as a kid and we "shot" each other and no one got hurt. I am happy to admit that these kinds of things don't have to create a lack of respect for life. However, as the "age at which men stop playing video games" seems to be increasing exponentially, we start to see that desensitization stay around instead of falling off. Instead of young adults setting a false world of violence behind and begin to see the people around them and the needs around them, we have a continued trend of violence and disrespect for life and others. We see a continued trend of "violence is the answer to our problems." We also have a higher level of realism thanks to amazing graphics and visual affects so the visual line between fantasy and reality has really been destroyed.
Reality and fiction are a much finer line for the young. I have an 8 year old who we still have to remind her when things we see are fake and not real life. Why? Because she assumes that if it looks real, then it should be real. ....is this true for everyone's child? I'm sure not. However, if you think your kids understand, I would challenge you to make sure. To talk to them and confirm that they know what things are real and what things are fake.
I'm not saying to ban these games or that you, as parents, ought to stop playing them (or stop allowing your kids play them). I am saying that if you have never talked to your kids about it or have never even thought about it, then you owe it to your kids AND to our future society to do it. To make sure they understand how to respect life.
OK. I know that was very much my own feelings on these things. You may agree with the need for respect of life, but not agree with my application of it. If so, post me an example you see that is an area where we need to work to increase the younger generation's (and our own) respect for life.
Later today (or tomorrow) I'm going to blog about respect (in general) and responsibility. So stay tuned one more time.
To God be the glory!!